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NYC – Im coming for you!

Hello New York!

It is it is with great pleasure that I announce my return to New York City after almost 5 years away. I am extremely honoured to have been asked to be a part of the Kink Collective NYC weekend Intensive where I will be teaching a workshop – PBK- People Before Kink : An Introspective Spiritual Intensive Thru the Lens of BDSM (tickets here: 

“PBK – NYC is a three-day Introspective Spiritual Intensive The focus of this hands-on experience is to open up to your full potential, both as an individual and as part of a community. You will learn how to connect with others from a place of deep compassion and empathy. This intensive will teach you to create safe containers and connect with others without an agenda. The life-changing value of this intensive process unfolds at a deeper level. The goal is self-actualization. Your authentic self can emerge: when barriers are removed, when weariness and shame are resolved, and when you have been fully seen, heard, and validated. .

This is not a “kink vacation” but a deep dive into connection that has been crafted for a select group. The word “intensive” is intentional. Arrive with the intention to connect, and lean into the process. We know that this work will not be easy for our participants. However, if you are committed to personal growth, this is where you are meant to be.” 

During my stay in New York City, I will be available for sessions in the greater metropolitan New York area, please be advised that advance booking and deposit is necessary, as I will be using the local dungeons for my sessions. Interested potential participants are urge to fill out my application profile on my website, or can send me a private message via my fetlife profile.

To summarize: I am a sensual  yet sadistic Dominatrix who specializes in feminization, forced bi experience, adores foot/leg/clothed body worship/ impact play, forced/denied orgasams/ felatio training , tickle torture, Mommy Domme, and more – Please refer to My list of skills in the “about me” section. 

For those who are more spiritually inclined, my approach to domination is a unique one – as a trained Reiki Master, Shamanic Practitioner, and an Access Conscious facilitator, I consensually employ a sacred container and work within the powerful energetic paradigm to guide you into a mystical experience.

I look forward to experiencing and seeing and enjoying all that New York City has to offer and welcome me with. 



The Great “OF White-Out” Debacle

Liquid paper is the quick fixer – “one swipe of the brush will wipe away your mess! “And OnlyFans has truly made a mess for itself and is now trying to “White Out” all of the Sw’s who made it the success it is today by “redefining” its terms of “acceptable use policy“.

Whiteout, “correction fluid” or as it’s now called – Liquid Paper, was used on master copies of mimeographs to correct spellings – back in the days before computers. Whiteout then quickly became popular with secretaries back in the ’70s who would amend the expense reports of their bosses who, I imagined, wanted to keep their “business lunches” secret from the taxman.

The OnlyFans “Great White Out” Debacle

This new “acceptable use policy states:

Do not use OnlyFans in any way which may exploit, harm, or attempt to exploit or harm any individual under 18 years old, for example by exposing them to inappropriate content.

Do not upload, post, display, or publish Content on OnlyFans that:

actual or simulated sexual intercourse, including genital-genital, oral-genital, anal-genital, or oral-anal, between persons of any sex;

actual or simulated masturbation;

any exhibition of the anus or genitals of any person which is extreme or offensive;

actual or simulated material depicting bodily fluids commonly secreted during sexual conduct;

drugs or drug paraphernalia;

actual or simulated incest;

actual or simulated violence, rape, lack of consent, hypnosis, intoxication, sexual assault, torture, hardcore bondage, fisting, or genital mutilation;

actual or simulated urine, scatological, or excrement-related material;

actual or simulated bestiality;

actual or simulated sadistic or masochistic abuse; or

actual or simulated necrophilia;

in the case of Content featuring public nudity, was recorded in or is being broadcast from a country, state or province where public nudity is illegal;

causes or is calculated to cause inconvenience or anxiety to anyone else or which is likely to upset, embarrass, or cause serious offence to anyone else;

SO all of this to say: “anything sexy gets you shut down

Perhaps in a future post, I’ll dissect and provide my sarcastic running commentary on each of these pathetic floppy penis-shaped bullet points and we can all have a good laugh at the expense of a company that will go down in history as being the shittiest of platforms to kick their money-making creators right smack in the face.

But for shits and giggles:

“actual or simulated masturbation” – “I like my martinis dry, and my acts of masturbation simulated…”

And because I find this policy so completely ridiculous and fueled by people who are out to further discredit SW’s and send them to be burned at the stake, I will not be posting any more content on this site. I will be primarily posting to my AVN Stars with updates here about the other platforms I will be using.

I stand in union with all of my co-creators in sounding the alarm bell. Censorship is the “White Out” that wants to blot out porn/BDSM/and any kind of artist depiction thereof between or by consenting adults akin to a mortal sin.

This is 2021 people.

Get an education.

Pull your head out of the ground and look back at some of the great pieces in Greco-Roman art history. They created art that would put even Larry Flint to shame.

This is 2021. Sex is sex is sex. If we choose to write about it, talk about it or even goddam film it – please do us all a favour, stop being such a fuc*en prude.

Summer Mossy Green

I love my feet. I really do. My high arches remind me of my days as a ballet dancer and my aspirations of being a Prima Ballerina, and my delicate toes are so unique in shape and size – plump at the top but not fat, slim in length but not gangly. Nothing makes me happier than a luxurious foot massage, especially when it’s at the hands of a dedicated servant who is absolutely smitten with me and my 20 beautiful diamond nuggets. Have a look at this sumptuous video I shot this summer while in the country: the soft moist mossy greenery was truly a treat to trample upon, and digging up the moss was sadistic enjoyment – From my Clips4Sale Store.

Summer’s Mossy Feet

Summer’s Mossy Feet

The Kinky Cocktail Hour – And Mistress DiamondBlu

My interview on the Kinky Cocktail hour is up!

Episode 134: Mistress Diamond Blu
In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Mistress @DiamondBlu about her journey and her experience as a Sensual Shamanista over a Franziskaner Premium Weissbier”

I always enjoy a good podcast, and The Kinky Cocktail hour is a great podcast. I mean, a REALLY great podcast.

In the world of many, it’s hard to stand out. Some of the contributing factors to a podcast’s credibility and uniqueness are (in my opinion):

  • relevant, current and occasionally controversial or non-conventional topics/subjects
  • engaging and entertaining hosts
  • the keen ability of the hosts to connect with their guests, asking intelligent, thought-provoking questions
  • and the host’s ability to expound on those answers, and sometimes, what’s not being said, to facilitate the guest into telling a story that is honest, and candid through their own unique voice.
  • and bonus points for being creative and catchy with their marketing – (a kinky cocktail concocted for each episode)

Saffer Master and Lady Petra are to me, the BradJolina (RIP) of the BDSM world (Brad being the s and Angelina being the D) Their love and admiration of each other is so very evident in their online presence, but it’s their complicity as a couple during their shows that is simply magical and enviable. Truly the charismatic duo in a real-life 24/7 D/s dynamic.

I was told about their show by a dear friend of mine – Rob the Rocket Arnegard and his show “the Rocket Review” (which I was also a guest on) this was a couple I absolutely had to meet – because they truly understood what Kink: all the fantastical colours and sumptuous flavours that make BDSM so decadently tasty and absolutely seductive.

After listening to the episode, I was amused, touched, enlightened, delighted, intrigued, and amused some more. These were people from my tribe – unique and genuine; they were speaking my kinky language.

Having taken a deeper dive into more of their podcasts, it was obvious to me that @saffermaster and @lady_petra’s interview techniques and their follow-up questions were well-rehearsed and spit-shine polished; reminiscent of the entertaining, yet provocative investigative journalism that was made famous by talk show greats such as Dick Cavett and John Stewart..

I won’t spoil the surprises of this episode – but it does include how my curiosity about sex was piqued at an early age, how I made my way into BDSM, how and why I became a Pro Domme, and how I believe that BDSM and spirituality are inherently intertwined.

And hopefully, one day, I will be able to enjoy my Sensual Shaminista in their company once again.