It is with great pleasure that I will once again be teaching my “Improv for Kinky People” but this time as a full-day intensive class on June 10th, at 10 am in New York City.
I offered an introduction to this class in June of last year as part of PBK (People Before Kink) weekend intensive. The response from the attendees was so positive and enthusiastic – I was immediately asked if there would be a more comprehensive class in the future. That same year, I was asked to give the same introduction to my class for Montreal Fetish Weekend 2022 – and it was a huge success!
For 18 years, Montreal’s Fetish Weekend has been one of the “must see/must do” things when coming to our city. The sexy, shiny, leather and latex outfits, the erotic, the gothic and the curious all gather happily in one of the world’s friendliest kinky parties that takes place during labour day weekend.
Unfortunately, Covid hit the city, and hit it hard. Fetish Weekend had to be put on hold for two long agonizing years, and much like the rest of the city, the festival is being rebuilt. The theme of this event, aptly titled – REBIRTH, will be like a Phoenix from the pandemic’s ashes, rising again in all its kinky glory!
Starting on September 1st to the 5th 2022, this festival is a myriad of workshops, discussion panels, social gatherings, dance parties, gala events and a photo walk through the city with a glorious air of pageantry of fashion forward fetish wear through the streets of Montreal.
This year’s Fetish Weekend’s events will be remembered for their larger than life, all-inclusive, spectacularly theatrical dynamic celebrations which will surely set all kinky folk’s hearts ablaze, hosted in some of Montreal’s most iconic entertainment venues.
REBIRTH… A JOURNEY INTO THE KINKIER SIDE OF MONTREAL
2022 brings us a more intimate adventure with a sense of rebirth where the city becomes your playground to explore. Together, we celebrate the movers and shakers who, year round, keep the city’s alternative scene alive and well with their venues. We highlight these enthusiastic KEEPERS OF THE FETISH PRIDE for an incredible journey into the kinkier side of Montreal!
Since the very beginning, our aim has been and remains to bring you the best event and our team dedicates time, effort and vision to create a unique inclusive experience with extra care to you, our loyal attendees. The Montreal Fetish Weekend offers plentiful social opportunities where longtime friendships are rekindled and new ones will be made!
Parties, workshops, shopping, dining, exploring our fabulous city (which in itself offers various more activities), photo walk, a fantasy ball, fashion, performances, outdoor fun, just to name a few!
UNLIKE ANYTHING ELSE IN THE WORLD
Celebrating fetish, fantasy, fun and friendship in the world’s FETISH-FRIENDLIEST CITY, the Montreal Fetish Weekend is one of the largest international fetish gatherings. From latex to lingerie, leather, pvc, goth, lolita, pin-up, cross-dressing and cosplay; all alternative fashion is celebrated. YOU ARE THE STAR!
How my improv training meets BDSM
I am so very honoured to be co-hosting these events with my mentor and dear friend Simone Justice: a former professional Dominatrix, she has also been a BDSM educator for more than 20 years. A Member of the board of directors of DomCon LA and NOLA, she is also an inductee to the BDSM Hall Of Fame.
She and I will also be teaching our respective courses on Friday September 2nd at Hotel Zero. I will be teaching a class called: Improv and BDSM – “how to get out of your head and fully into a scene”.
“Through the examination and application of the basic rules of Improvisation, we will discover the elements of play, surrender and trust, all of which are also the foundations of a successful and satisfying BDSM scene. Through the lens of Improv, I will share a different perspective of spontaneity and flow, and how to break free of our self-imposed rigid narrative kink structures that often keep us from being fully present in the moment. And also, how to embrace failure boldly and happily if and when it does happen. “
A full afternoon of powerful, intelligent inspiring women await you!
These and other events and schedules can be found on the Montreal Fetish Weekend Website – VIP passes are sold out but weekend passes and individual events are still available.
It is it is with great pleasure that I announce my return to New York City after almost 5 years away. I am extremely honoured to have been asked to be a part of the Kink Collective NYC weekend Intensive where I will be teaching a workshop – PBK- People Before Kink : An Introspective Spiritual Intensive Thru the Lens of BDSM (tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/366597963377
“PBK – NYC is a three-day Introspective Spiritual Intensive The focus of this hands-on experience is to open up to your full potential, both as an individual and as part of a community. You will learn how to connect with others from a place of deep compassion and empathy. This intensive will teach you to create safe containers and connect with others without an agenda. The life-changing value of this intensive process unfolds at a deeper level. The goal is self-actualization. Your authentic self can emerge: when barriers are removed, when weariness and shame are resolved, and when you have been fully seen, heard, and validated. .
This is not a “kink vacation” but a deep dive into connection that has been crafted for a select group. The word “intensive” is intentional. Arrive with the intention to connect, and lean into the process. We know that this work will not be easy for our participants. However, if you are committed to personal growth, this is where you are meant to be.”
During my stay in New York City, I will be available for sessions in the greater metropolitan New York area, please be advised that advance booking and deposit is necessary, as I will be using the local dungeons for my sessions. Interested potential participants are urge to fill out my application profile on my website, or can send me a private message via my fetlife profile.
To summarize: I am a sensual yet sadistic Dominatrix who specializes in feminization, forced bi experience, adores foot/leg/clothed body worship/ impact play, forced/denied orgasams/ felatio training , tickle torture, Mommy Domme, and more – Please refer to My list of skills in the “about me” section.
For those who are more spiritually inclined, my approach to domination is a unique one – as a trained Reiki Master, Shamanic Practitioner, and an Access Conscious facilitator, I consensually employ a sacred container and work within the powerful energetic paradigm to guide you into a mystical experience.
I look forward to experiencing and seeing and enjoying all that New York City has to offer and welcome me with.
Liquid paper is the quick fixer – “one swipe of the brush will wipe away your mess! “And OnlyFans has truly made a mess for itself and is now trying to “White Out” all of the Sw’s who made it the success it is today by “redefining” its terms of “acceptable use policy“.
Whiteout, “correction fluid” or as it’s now called – Liquid Paper, was used on master copies of mimeographs to correct spellings – back in the days before computers. Whiteout then quickly became popular with secretaries back in the ’70s who would amend the expense reports of their bosses who, I imagined, wanted to keep their “business lunches” secret from the taxman.
The OnlyFans “Great White Out” Debacle
This new “acceptable use policy states:
Do not use OnlyFans in any way which may exploit, harm, or attempt to exploit or harm any individual under 18 years old, for example by exposing them to inappropriate content.
Do not upload, post, display, or publish Content on OnlyFans that:
actual or simulated sexual intercourse, including genital-genital, oral-genital, anal-genital, or oral-anal, between persons of any sex;
actual or simulated masturbation;
any exhibition of the anus or genitals of any person which is extreme or offensive;
actual or simulated material depicting bodily fluids commonly secreted during sexual conduct;
drugs or drug paraphernalia;
actual or simulated incest;
actual or simulated violence, rape, lack of consent, hypnosis, intoxication, sexual assault, torture, hardcore bondage, fisting, or genital mutilation;
actual or simulated urine, scatological, or excrement-related material;
actual or simulated bestiality;
actual or simulated sadistic or masochistic abuse; or
actual or simulated necrophilia;
in the case of Content featuring public nudity, was recorded in or is being broadcast from a country, state or province where public nudity is illegal;
causes or is calculated to cause inconvenience or anxiety to anyone else or which is likely to upset, embarrass, or cause serious offence to anyone else;
SO all of this to say: “anything sexy gets you shut down“
Perhaps in a future post, I’ll dissect and provide my sarcastic running commentary on each of these pathetic floppy penis-shaped bullet points and we can all have a good laugh at the expense of a company that will go down in history as being the shittiest of platforms to kick their money-making creators right smack in the face.
But for shits and giggles:
“actual or simulated masturbation” – “I like my martinis dry, and my acts of masturbation simulated…”
And because I find this policy so completely ridiculous and fueled by people who are out to further discredit SW’s and send them to be burned at the stake, I will not be posting any more content on this site. I will be primarily posting to my AVN Stars with updates here about the other platforms I will be using.
I stand in union with all of my co-creators in sounding the alarm bell. Censorship is the “White Out” that wants to blot out porn/BDSM/and any kind of artist depiction thereof between or by consenting adults akin to a mortal sin.
This is 2021 people.
Get an education.
Pull your head out of the ground and look back at some of the great pieces in Greco-Roman art history. They created art that would put even Larry Flint to shame.
This is 2021. Sex is sex is sex. If we choose to write about it, talk about it or even goddam film it – please do us all a favour, stop being such a fuc*en prude.
